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You won't believe this! (Family Law)

Thu, 24 Oct 2002 21:28:00 GMT

What is the name of your state? missouri
Well, if anyone has been following our story, you know that bio-mom had court on tues. Well, she is telling everyone that the outsome of her court was that she go to a 30 drug rehab and that the judge ordered that the children go with her (oldest one my fiance's and baby is her and her husband's). Maybe I am stupid to the way that things work but I have never heard anything so absurd in my whole life as to taking kids with you to drug rehab. Has this woman just lost her mind and is so stupid that she thinks this is real? If anyone has ever heard anything like this, please, let me know. I am so dumbfounded. We dont' even know what to think about this. There is no way that this can be true. Please, everyone, let me know if you have ever heard anything like this. I am getting her court docket tommorow but I really want to know what everyone thinks about this.

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  • Wed, 06 Nov 2002 15:41:00 GMT(1)
  • We called her probatin officer. The officer informed us that she was the one who recommended that the children go (15 months and 6 months old) because there were couselors there who could help the children because the offier said that "I know she is a horrible mom, I have seen her with those children." Well, I would like to know how the heck a counselor communicates with babies who can't talk and try to help them. Anyway, so mom was supposed to go today and be there at 8 a.m. By 10 a.m., she still had not picked up little girl (15 months, she is my fiances) from the babysitter. When we talked to the officer, she said that if mom didn't go today, she would go to prison in Feb. So, we called her when we found out that mom still had not went because we wanted to know what was going on and if baby girl was not going now. Office told us that she did not know that mom had not showed up for rehab and that she was going to her house to see what was going on. In the early afternoon today, mom called us because she thought that we called the probation officer just to get her in trouble, but we didn't call for that reason. Anyway, she told us that we would never see his daughter again and that he wasn't going to beat her in court and get any custody. Well, dad has never been in trouble in his life and she is going to prison so all I can so I laugh. Don't get me wrong, maybe prison will change her and she will come back and be a good mom, but I know that won't happen. You reap what you sew and she has sewn herself into a prison cell. HA HA HA HA, see you in court you worthless excuse for a mother.
    Sorry, had to get that all out.
  • Wed, 06 Nov 2002 12:32:00 GMT(2)
  • Mary, that was very brave of you to post this encouraging note.
  • Thu, 24 Oct 2002 22:39:00 GMT(3)
  • I personally, never have. I mean a judge ordering children to be around a bunch of recovering alcoholics and drug addicts? Seems a bit far-fetched to me. Never been in one of those places myself, nor know of anyone that has. To me, it seems like either the judge was wacked out on crack himself/herself that day in court, or mom is just wacked out period.
  • Tue, 12 Nov 2002 21:08:00 GMT(4)
  • Well, she started to 28-day rehab last week with the kids after she told us that we could never see baby girl again. She just called a few minutes ago and said that she can't take care of the kids 24/7 and PLEASE PLEASE come get them and drop the other baby off at her dad's house. So, we get to keep baby girl for two weeks! I am so glad. Anyway, just wanted to update everyone. Thank so much everyone for your support through all this.
  • Fri, 25 Oct 2002 10:35:00 GMT(5)
  • Could happen. I work for a non-profit that has a collaboration with a residential drug treatment center. They allow the children of clients to stay with them.
  • Fri, 25 Oct 2002 13:22:00 GMT(6)
  • How horrible, I can't even imagine those two precious little girls having to be around those kind of people. I really hope that if this is true, we can find a way to stop her.
  • Wed, 06 Nov 2002 10:25:00 GMT(7)
  • I have been there. A year and a half ago I was sentence to a 30 day program and was ordered to take my newborn baby with me. I was very upset with the idea. Not being raised in such an invirenment, I didn't want to subject my child to such a place. Surrounded by low life and drug user. Myself, I had to go because of a DUI I had gotten (before I became pregnant) My advice to you through my own experience, is don't worry the people I thought were low life and yes were drug users, were there to get help. I the places are monitored a great deal. And the child stays with the parent at all times. No it's not a vaction at Club Med, but it's over before you know it. Besides in most cases if the child feels extremely uncomfortable they are able to stay with a family member. I completely undrstand what you are going through. It is imposible to emagine but it happens. Just keep your head up!
  • Wed, 13 Nov 2002 17:32:00 GMT(8)
  • What makes me sick is that they give these crack whore worthless excuses for mothers chance after chance after chance. The system is so messed up. Children's interest are never put first. Always the parents interest. Like I said, makes me sick.
    I say but the witch in jail for a few years. If that don't work, execute her. Ha ha just kiddin. Sorta.
  • Fri, 25 Oct 2002 21:00:00 GMT(9)
  • well, is there anything that we can do to stop her from taking the little girl? We have a court date of December 6th (for full custody) but she might go before then, please help is there anything at all?
  • Wed, 06 Nov 2002 12:44:00 GMT(10)
  • How old are the children are they in school? or any organized daily routines like day care...anything? I would think that might be a good reason to appeal whatever desicion this judge has decided to make!
    I can't imagine taking a child out of school for a month because of the mothers addiction problem.
    Drugs/Addictions are a sad...sad...thing. I can't imagine what these little girls must be going through.
    Good luck!
  • Thu, 24 Oct 2002 21:58:00 GMT(11)
  • Has anyone ever heard of such a thing? I just want your opinions
  • Tue, 12 Nov 2002 22:15:00 GMT(12)
  • My step daughter's mother was sent to rehab. We have custody of the little girl so the judge couldn't tell her to go but she had the nerve to ask us if she could take her. OF COURSE WE SAID NO! She did end up letting her other 10 year old daughter go with her. She went to Springfield, MO. From what I heard it was more like a vacation than rehab! It makes me sick!
  • Thu, 24 Oct 2002 22:37:00 GMT(13)
  • I am as astonished as you are! I have never heard of such a thing happening and I find it impossible to believe. Please keep us posted after you find out more.
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