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Mon, 22 Oct 2007 10:07:00 GMT

What is the name of your state? Pa Allegheny county and Washington County
Hi,
I am new to this and hope that someone can help me out some.
I have two daughters 12 and 11. They live with there mom and I get regular visitations.
About two weeks ago My one daughter said that she had "oral" sex with a relative of my ex wife this is the second time that such allogations have been brought up by her regarding someone. the first time it was a minor child and the second time was an adult.
The first time notthing happened this was with a minor child at the age of 16.
This time its an adult . Both kids said that they were told by there mom not to say anything to anyone including my 12 year olds therapist. My 12 came to me and told me about this.
The judge in Allegheny county gave me temp custody untill my daughter could be interviewed by what they call a care team. That interview will take place this week. The judge make her ruling the day after.
I live in one county and my ex lives in another and I have been taking the kids back and forth to school over the past two weeks now. untill the judge rules if the kids should go back. Both kids are confused. They want to be with there friends and there animals and dont want there lives to be turned up side down as it has. On the other hand they want to be safe. I am in no financial condition to move to the school district that my ex wife is in.
I guess what I am asking is what should I expect and what should I do.? My attorney calls this a coin toss. We both think that both girls will talk about what happened but they will say that they want to go home with mom even though she was the one who told them not to tell.
By the way my daughter had a number of sessions with the therapist after telling her mom both with the therapist and with here mom in the room with me.
Thank youWhat is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?

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