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Cathleen (Wills & Trusts)

Sat, 11 Feb 2006 15:42:00 GMT

My Father, who passed away three years ago, stated in his will that he wanted his cremated remains to be spread over a certain body of water. My stepmother is keeping the remains in her home and refusing to comply with the will and threatening to throw them away. Is there anything I can do to make sure the remains are safe while we fight this out in court? I want my Father's wishes to be fulfilled. His will was filed in the state of Mississipp. His widow lives in Mississippi.
Cathleen

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    Originally Posted by cathleen321

    My Father, who passed away three years ago, stated in his will that he wanted his cremated remains to be spread over a certain body of water. My stepmother is keeping the remains in her home and refusing to comply with the will and threatening to throw them away. Is there anything I can do to make sure the remains are safe while we fight this out in court? I want my Father's wishes to be fulfilled. His will was filed in the state of Mississipp. His widow lives in Mississippi.
    Cathleen


    My response:
    Cathleen, as hard is this is going to be for you to understand, the truth is that this is none of your business. You have no "say" in the matter.
    The ashes are "personal property". They are no longer "your father." As such, your step-mother can do with the "personal property" as she wishes because the "personal property" belongs to her - - not you.
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